Midday audacity

1:07 pm

Considered Googling how to ask out a random girl I’ve never seen before, but then I realized that would just be silly because trying it is the best way to learn.

On the note, I really want to ask out a cute girl once in a while, but she’s probably not a Christian. There’s nothing I can really do about this. There are no guidelines. All my friends say it’s a mistake to even try, and I agree with them, but I hate passing up that opportunity since there are so few.


10:24 pm

Update on that cute girl: I actually did something about my feelings. I walked up to her table, sat down, and said, “So, hypothetically, if a guy thought you were cute and wanted to ask you out, what would be the best way of doing that?”

She proceeded to tell me that she really wasn’t sure because she had never been asked out before. That made me rather sad to hear, especially because I can relate. I asked her what classes she was taking. She said English, Spanish, and something else I forgot. (I was too distracted by the fact that I made a move.) Her friend, through all of this, was persistent: “Cute boy. Get his number. Duh.” The first name she gave me was Muffins and I honestly don’t remember the real one because this was so amusing.

I spoke with her friend for a few minutes. She said she was from Maine, she drove a Volkswagen Jetta once and it was a “standard” (weird word for stick or manual) and she thought a lot of people romanticize Maine. I told her I did once, then I explained why romanticized places is bad, based off my knowledge from last week’s research of why people move to Alaska. She also remarked early on that she thought I was from MTV and since we were in California the whole thing was a sort of reality show.

But no, it was real. The cute girl (no offense to the other one, I was just there for a purpose, and for the purpose of the way I’m telling this story it’s best to reveal her name later on because that’s what writers do), after pondering it for a while, returned a second, more interesting answer to my initial question. “I’d like to get to know him and hang out a few times before I would go on a date with him.” I respected that. Highly. I told her I was of the same morals, but didn’t want to come off nearly as extreme as I truly am: I’m a Christian. I really respect someone who values more than casual sex or having a significant other for the sake of it.

After a bit more arbitrary small talk (isn’t it all?) I told them both I had best get to class. I scurried off, discovered the classroom was being used, and rethought it all. Reconsidering, I returned to the scene and gave the girl my card, commenting, “If you ever need help with English, feel free to contact me.”

Was that too minimal? I don’t really know. She hasn’t texted me or followed me on Twitter yet. I tell myself I did all I can. I guess that’s true. After all, what if she doesn’t value what I do? It wouldn’t work anyway. But going in I knew the risks, and look what an interesting person I met. Those poor Christians — nay, people — who don’t put themselves out there. And I mean out there, not just a number slip at the bar. They don’t know the joy they can bring someone simply by making them feel valued. My genuine interest in the cute girl may not have done much more than raise her self esteem. At best, right now, I made a new friend and I don’t know it yet. But enough overthinking.

Oh and her name was Chloe. Not sure how she spells it. Chlôe? Nah.

Simpler lives

I desire a simple life much more than anything in life right now. It’s a romantic idea, though. I don’t remember romantic being a word to describe an idea, place, or life direction, but apparently it is. That makes me want to research the Romantic Era.

I look at people like Ben Howard, with his blatant disregard for, and hatred of, fame, and I see a beautiful thing. It’s something I don’t have when I use navigation instead of a map, when I take pictures of something to remember rather than capture its beauty, when I make sure all the little decisions in my life are overthought as much as possible to ensure some sense of perfection. It’s all so far from what I truly want.

I don’t know why more people aren’t trying to escape their complicated lives. Social media seems like some sort of requirement to be a person these days. I wish more people spent time reading books. Not until this past week did I understand the value of taking notes on paper. Sure, there are the studies that say it’s good for you, but those don’t matter since “you” has never successfully put me in a box. The more important thing is that computers, in all their greatness, don’t provide that wonderful organic feel you can get from a pad of paper. I like that.

This sounds silly because my handwriting is down there with the worst, but I can type around 110 words per minute. Why throw it away for a bit of scribbling? Minimalism. It’s a thing, and I like that thing. People judge me whenever I talk about being simpler, as if it’s some sort of sin. I just like having less stuff so I can travel easier and think about what’s going on right now. I never feel like I need to check Facebook because I don’t have an account. All the notifications but the ringer are turned off on my iPhone because they distract me to no end. I don’t even have app badges on.

In Isla Vista, California, I feel like an outsider with my lack of interest in “the times”. I read the news, but not as much as I used to. I own one set of bed sheets, only the books I plan to read again, only the CDs I want with me for life, and four pairs of pants. I don’t write this because I’m proud of how frugal or space-saving I am. I write it because I feel more involved in what I do because I have less stuff surrounding me.

Now for the hipster cliché: I despite consumerism. It’s a circle of waste. Very little of what people buy in a mall is necessary. Even food. I didn’t need those chocolate-covered raisins, but they give me energy for twenty minutes, so why not? Quick fixes — gotta love ’em. While none of this stuff is necessary, I still find myself buying it from time to time. Why not get a better camera. Why not buy a new computer. Why not get the latest iPhone. Why not get a backup sleeping bag for that one camping trip next year. Why not — oh, rubbish.

Why not invest your love in someone? Use your wealth, even if it is small, to improve their life. Or use your knowledge to teach them a valuable skill. Seems more worthwhile than investing your money in a Porsche. (Wait, that’s not an investment.) Don’t get me wrong: I like using a MacBook as my computer because it doesn’t frustrate me as often as a PC, but I don’t like using it that much anymore. I would rather read a book nowadays.

This started out as a journal entry, then it went to a blog post, and now it’s back to journal entry since it’s more of a rant. Oh well, the editorial process.

Geo-philosophical

Everyone develops faith in something. Scientists have to put faith in their many calculations, hoping they are correct about the Universe being created as a result of a “Big Bang”. The obvious question is, what happened before that? Who caused that to take place?

With religions, the question is who created God? We have to believe there was some reason for it, right? God could have even caused said “Big Bang”. Evolution and creation can both be correct in many areas, despite what extremists want to say.

I personally think it’s just astounding how many levels you can consider in life. Philosophers could take it yet another and question whether or not our knowledge of mathematics is even real, and by that if our calculations about the Earth’s history and whatnot are real.

Then there’s the other end of the spectrum: living. It’s fun to think about origins, but that knowledge really isn’t the most practically applicable thing. You can talk about it when you’re around colleagues or friends, but what about when you’re around your family? You still need to understand the basic human emotions. You still need to be able to love, receive love, understand how someone is feeling, resolve conflict, etc. Science can teach you some of that, but psychology isn’t universally applicable either.

This is why I don’t like absolutes. They just aren’t practical. There are a few absolutes in life, like “gravity will always bring this object back down”. But saying that gravity will always exist, and always has, is absurd.

Just some thoughts I’m having while reading this week’s section in geology.

One two three heartbeat

When asked in creative writing why I am attending college, I answered, “To meet interesting people.” While that’s a good reason (apparently, according to the rest of the class which I thought was weak) it’s not the whole story. I really want to go because I am wasting my mind on other things, like browsing the Internet, and it’s pointless. Nothing interesting comes of it. Nothing worthwhile at least.

I should be able to tell myself that classes aren’t a big deal and I don’t have to look good, but I can’t shake the traumatizing experiences in high school. I still want to look good even if I know the people don’t care that much. I just pray I can do better this year.

Here’s the biggest thing I thought of my first day of class: What’s the point wanting to be so individualistic that my writing is never read by others? I don’t want fame or anything, but the idea that all my work did nothing but help me figure out a problem with my social life compels me to do something better with the content. Truly, there’s no reason for me to fret about being the best at speech or any of my classes, because I’m already using my potential more than I was sitting at home.

Hopefully I’ll talk about this in class one day. The vicious cycle that seems okay. Labeling myself an introvert seemed to give me a reason to shy away from people and live my own little life in a tiny house (great movie) for the rest of my life. But thinking about it, there’s no point to that life. Maybe I could grow closer to God, but it’s such an absurd selfish endeavor. I’m sure there are times for it, but surely not now.

So back to speech. Yeah I’m nervous. I’m nervous for all my classes. They scare me because I’m a former homeschooler who doesn’t know how to handle classrooms. I like my comfy online classes. Time to stretch those areas of the brain I know I have and do some amazing stuff. AND WHO CARES WHAT THEY THINK?

I know tomorrow I’ll end up forgetting I wrote this.

Exactly 1600 words not including the title

I’ve neglected more than journaling lately. I haven’t written anything. At least nothing creative. I did write that presentation for Ted at The Sheet, but that wasn’t creative in the sense I’m thinking of.

I emailed Ryan O’Neal from Sleeping At Last tonight because I wanted to ask him where he gets his inspiration. (I really enjoy “Jupiter” off the Atlas project. Especially the line, “make my messes matter”.) Despite initially seeing him as a whiney artist, I’ve grown to love Sleeping At Last. As music should, it enables my imagination to run free and transport me to a different place and time. I love that.

I said in a journal entry before that I wanted to make music with meaning like Owl City’s has for me. I want to add to that: I also love Sleeping At Last, in all his whiney moments, because of where my mind wanders when I listen to his stuff. Everything he creates is artistic, from the album artwork to the songwriting.

It’s all so organic, too. When I compare it to a synthesizer, what FMLYBND is doing, and what I sort of like musically, I want to stop going in the direction I am right now and take the course that O’Neal did in his production. I want to create ambient, flowing sounds because that’s what makes me feel alive. There’s a place for Kygo, Empire of the Sun, and Tobu, but not for that glitch hop and Rahizel phase. At least not in this moment, and all my most valued emotions are present in this moment, so why care about the others?

I don’t want to leave any parts of myself out just because I feel a certain way at the moment, but I’m so tired of being in the same place the other college kids. I want to create a more organic sound: I don’t like the garage rock dynamic that Mac is using in worship on Sundays. Maybe it’s too New Age to play what Ian McIntosh does during worship, but I love starting with a nice pad and working my way up to the MGMT and M83 synths. Looking at it right now, I don’t see how those help to connect me with God at all. But that’s a different journal entry.

Anyway, I bought an M-Audio Venom, Kef C15 monitors, and a nice-looking Pioneer amplifier from 1986 yesterday because I want an organic sound. I was tempted to get a tube amp, and maybe I should have. But they are a lot more complicated and I don’t need to spend more time and money just for something that will consume my life all the more.

I want to create things that are the closest possible to purely organic, while incorporating newer sounds like synth pads and electric pianos. Organic in that sense would be ambient I suppose. The same goes for anything I do. I don’t really like the feeling of typing on a keyboard, except for the fact that it’s far easier for me to get my thoughts out that way and keep them organized in the digital world. I’d love to jot them down by hand, but I’d never be able to go this fast, nor would I be able to keep them at all organized. The same goes for voice journals. Video journals could be better, but I don’t wish to endeavor on such a thing right now.


On a different note, a few weeks ago I decided to stop worrying so much about the life part of college and think about the academics instead. I let my inspiration be Dead Poets Society and other works of the sort because I believe that education really is worth it and I really can dedicate myself to it. Unfortunately, I’m having a hard time remaining optimistic. I feel overwhelmed by the idea that there’s so much more out there and I will one day have to discover it all at once. In essence I’m overwhelmed by the possibility of overwhelmingness in the future.

I could think about the Bible verses that say not to worry about the future, and I do, but I also need to practically convince myself that reverting to a comfortable life with my parents just because I’m finding the negative aspects of my new home is not a good choice.

So, on that: I am tempted to just go back to life in the mountains, because it was really a pleasant thing when I look at it. But I was headed nowhere, which didn’t matter to me. I would rather live a simpler life than this rat race-like one in the city. My interior decorating can be as minimal as I like, but I can’t escape the fact that I’m constantly surrounded by thousands of other human beings, seven of which I live with and have to speak with every day.

I try to make things simpler in my life, but I can never do so for others’ lives. I wish I could because I’d stop stressing about it all. Maybe I should just learn how to stop stressing about it instead.

Just a month and a half in, I seem to have “normalized” this new location and lifestyle in my mind. Routines are developing and I’m already starting to get bored. I don’t want to get bored, though. Then I get restless because I’m not moving anywhere and because it seems like there’s nothing interesting left in the world. There are few distractions that actually help me when I’m have so much attention to dedicate to analyzing them before they can begin distracting me.

Saying all that makes me realize I’ll be a great student. I’m smart — everyone tells me that and I sort of know it myself. I’m also pretty impractical in some areas though. I rarely finish reading anything, often discard journal entries because I don’t want to sit down and write the whole thing, and so on. I’m just lazy. I get bored and when new things do present themselves, I’m already too stagnant to care. My life is a routine; why should this little thing matter? It won’t help at this point. Yada yada.

I love ranting about these things in my journal because this white space is limitless. Keep typing and another line is added magically. My cursor can continue to move about, characters with meaning appearing in its wake. It’s a good way for me to process I suppose. Some people say that writing things with their hands is better for them to remember those things, but I’ve never tried so I have no idea whether it would work or not.

Speaking of never trying, I’ve been working on that. Lately I’ve been getting into such a comfortable routine that I’m going to bed early and slowly stripping the adventure from my life. Seriously, it’s just been a month and a half and I’m already getting cynical and less adventurous. What is marriage like?

Anyway, never trying. I feel like the adventurous day is really good for me, but I never want to start it. Yesterday was like that, with the hunt for a virtual analog synth and all that stuff, but it’s rare. That’s why I always admired Daniel for being the adventurous type who refuses to sit around and do nothing every night. At the same time, I have an obsession, thanks to Dan Benjamin and Merlin Mann, with going to sleep very soon after the sun sets and waking up when it rises. AN OBSESSION I TELL YOU.

At the same time, I have literally nothing on my calendar for tomorrow. Well, aside from the house’s water being switched off for half the day, but that doesn’t matter. If that’s the case, why was I so eager to not journal, to hastily make my bed, and to get that movie over with just so I can get to sleep? I know the benefits of sleep — I’ve researched them many many times. Still, I don’t need it that badly right now. I mean, I’ll end up sleeping about eight hours if I stop writing this now, which isn’t bad since I only went on a four-mile bike ride today. I’ve had days with far worse.

Why is it I constantly find myself doing nothing productive, thinking about productivity instead? (That reminds me: Back to Work is at 9 tomorrow morning.) I spent a lot of time daydreaming. You’d think it’s a good thing, sort of like Walter Mitty, but it’s not. If he was a real person, it wasn’t for him either. It’s cool on a big screen with effects, but when you do it every day, it’s normal and it’s a mess. My life is a daydreaming mess most of the time. I wish I was here doing this, I wish I was in this industry, I wish my career started already, I wish I was a musician, I wish I was old so I don’t have to worry about a 401k, I wish I knew how to use tenses properly in this paragraph, blah blah.

I’m sure other people go through that, but I don’t feel like they do. They never talk about it. The Internet is good for that sort of topic, but I wish more people in my life talked about daydreaming. Maybe my friends don’t think about things like that.

Okay I’m feeling tired and this entry is already far too long to publish on Tumblr. But who cares? Very few people read them anyway.

Boyhood

Just got back from watching Boyhood. While it was good in some aspects — like the fact that they spent 12 years on a single project — I felt empty by the end. The problem was, it never really gave me a chance to feel for the boy. From the very beginning, it doesn’t really focus on him, but rather his sister and his family. Only in the last 45 minutes — of a 165-minute film — did it seem to tackle that.

I understand that it was supposed to be about life, and it didn’t really have a general plot. He didn’t get the girl you thought he would, he didn’t really resolve a lot of conflict, his mom is without him in the end, etc. All of it was unsatisfying. I guess I’m just one of those suckers for redemptive qualities. There was the bit with the Mexican guy who fixed Mason’s mother’s sewer, and the unexpectedly great father.

Speaking of the father, he was kind of strange. The whole film wanted to be as real as possible, yet the father seems fake. They never really show his weak side — what was so wrong with him that led them to fight and get divorced? Then he marries what seems to be a Texas Baptist?

There’s obviously a lot of the story left out. They tried to imply as much as they could, and that’s what bugged me. A lot of it felt very drawn-out, whereas other areas should have been more developed. The beginning, for example, is so ordinary it’s boring. It almost seems like you’re watching the neighbors raise their children in a broken home. There’s that little bit of conflict, but it isn’t anything that keeps my attention.

The main issue was that I got bored after about an hour. I was wondering when the point, so to speak, would make its way into the script. It never really did. I guess that was the point (?).

Going in, I was excited to see how the actors embraced their role as time went on. Only they didn’t. Well, the lead didn’t at least. Samantha was a bit more interesting as the years went by, but Mason was the same basic person. That could be his feat.

Unfortunately, I never really connected with the main character. The film’s outlook of “an ordinary life is okay” is an admirable one, but it’s not nearly as interesting as in the setting of About Time. Maybe it was the hint of magic — time travel — that caused me to enjoy that more. I don’t know. What I do know is Boyhood was far less enjoyable than I had hoped.

Being cool and knowing everything

So, I really need to stop journaling as if I’m writing a blog post. Donald Miller’s books make me realize that, because it does sound like he’s just talking to himself the whole time.

Anyway, the main subject of this entry is a major issue I’ve noticed in my life: I really love to appear privileged. After all that time people have things, know people, understand stuff, or whatever else I don’t, I’m adopted the same thing when I’m around people I used to know. I spend a moderate amount of energy trying to appear “cool”, I suppose, and it’s a horrible thing to do.

I realized this yesterday while driving to Santa Barbara with John and Leyla, yet I still did it this morning at Caje. John and I were grabbing coffee and Jason walked in and poked me. I immediately said, “Of course you’re here.” It’d be one thing if I genuinely meant that, but I didn’t. I actually wanted to act like I knew what I was talking about and demonstrate that I knew him.

There are an infinite examples of this. I did it when I was talking to Leyla about Downtown yesterday, acting like I knew where De La Guerra turned into a circle. I hadn’t the slightest idea. I’m so used to faking it, but I’m also bad at faking it because I don’t like to be dishonest. It’s funny: I’ll do it to support my social position and pride, but not get a job or something practical. I’m weird like that I suppose.

Speaking of appearances, I love leaving my door open in the house just so I can seem cool with my music. I also type as loud as I can when I’m around others because I think it’ll attract attention. (It doesn’t actually work; more people pay attention to me when I’m not trying to get it than when I am.)

I really need to journal more. Oh yeah, I do have one more thing to jot down.

I watched Blue Like Jazz for the second time in two weeks last night. I really love that movie. (Side note: I almost did it again! I tried to write erase movie and write film just to be different. I do it with Autumn and celsius too! I’m not a terrible person, I’m just selfish in that aspect.) Despite the “sea of individuality” that Donald has to face, it makes me happy to see how daringly individual people really are.

John and I were just talking about individuality in Caje. It seems that a lot of people in Crowley and Mammoth are like super-individualistic. Despite that, there is some community, but it seems to be centered — tehe, “centred” — around bars and superficial things rather than outdoors. Here very few people are individuals — many of the people from church live in community, which is what I believe makes the church so much better than others I’ve been to.

It’s really weird how the struggle to be unique can be an obsession that drives you to be selfish. In some ways it’s just as bad as conforming to a group or succumbing to peer pressure. It’s a strange comparison, but it kind of works. Both extremes are bad, obviously, but I wonder which is more damaging to a person.

Electricity

I was just reading about the history of electricity in Wikipedia. Wow, humanity has progressed quickly in the past one hundred years.

I’m just amazed at how little scientists in 600 AD knew about electricity and were fascinated by it. Yet it’s something nearly every person on the planet uses every day without thinking about it. We’re burning fossil fuels to make sure our lights are on, our TVs keep telling us about the world’s problems and latest bachelor, and our computers inform us of who’s in a relationship on Facebook.

It makes me sad to see how far humanity has come in the past 50 years — heck, in the past decade. I feel like I was born in the wrong time. I missed out on the days of sailing — I know they weren’t as whimsical as I imagine, but still — and Musketeers and even the Romans. So many things happened before I was born that it’s hard for me to feel like I mean anything. When I think about it all, I’m so insignificant. I actually like that feeling, too. We’re all part of something bigger I suppose.

And to say that God didn’t create the Earth when reading about anything scientific is preposterous. Maybe people reach a certain level of knowledge and end up feeling like they’ve surpassed God or something, as ridiculous as that sounds. But when I go back and think of it all, when I think about how I’m typing this on a beautiful machine from Apple and it’s being backed up on Dropbox’s servers and then eventually published on Day One’s so people can read my silly thoughts, I wonder why I don’t think about these things more often.

I’ve read a lot about enlightenment. In school, I had to read Siddhartha, which I liked despite my (Christian) parents judging me for reading a book about Buddha. Then I read A Razor’s Edge, which I also enjoyed. Both spoke of spiritual enlightenment in some sort of way. Each person believes what he will, but I think there’s so much more to it than we assume from looking at their “outer heart”. We’ll never see what they’re thinking, because you can’t see that sort of thing. Instead we’ll be angry when we see them do something we don’t like or we wouldn’t do. Instead we judge.

Okay back to enlightenment. I feel like this is one of those moments they talk about. It feels enlightening in some strange way. I’m not meditating or anything, just musing the essence of electricity at 11:30 pm. Once in a while I’d hear people say, “Hey, why don’t you think about how you’re doing what you are right now.” I always thought it was a waste of time to consider the origins of everything from my shoes to shampoo and time zone server that keeps my computer going.

It’s very easy to get distracted by things in the daily life, to get caught up in the mess. After all, there’s so much to worry about. I need to reduce my carbon footprint, stop using so much water, get a standing desk, straighten my glasses, use a toothpick after eating broccoli, press Done when I finish an entry in Day One, switch my phone to airplane mode at night so it doesn’t give me cancer (because that’s what people say will happen), yell at the noisy neighbors of Isla Vista, itch my itchy finger, think about why my veins are so large, eat the right meals, tap my toes to the beat of my favorite new song, distract myself with everything that comes my way, and of course look perfect while doing all this. I wouldn’t want to let people know how broken part of my life is — THEY MIGHT UNFRIEND ME.

Life is so complicated, yet so simple at times. I’m ashamed to have not known the origins of electricity. I feel like that’s something the public school system should teach. Yet world history is not really present in California’s high schools. America only seems to care about what happened after it became a country, not before Christopher Columbus sailed with his mates across the mistaken Indian Ocean. We don’t look at anything archaic as a society anymore, because anything older than ten minutes doesn’t matter. Anything longer than a thousand words should be rendered unreadable (the mighty TL;DR). ADD seems more of a social standard than anything.

I sit here writing this at what is now 11:38 pm. My last housemate has gone to her room. I’m all alone to be myself. You know, the person I would have been if she wasn’t here the whole time. Why I waste time on keeping up appearances I do not know. Time is such a great thing and I’ve been sitting here day after day making VLC my most used app, not reading more classic literature or talking to astute people — not that I actually enjoy classic literature. You know what I do enjoy? The whimsical idea of being in a different time. I’m sure there would be a lot of the same problems as today, because people are people, but I also think I could be Leo Tolstoy or Henry David Thoreau.

I’ve begun to realize why learning about all these great people from history is important. I only wish this revelation came along sooner. Then I immediately withdraw that wish. The thing is, revelations happen when they do and we can’t change that. Why should we? I’ve been given the knowledge to have a revelation far before I actually ended up figuring things out and it did nothing for me. I don’t even remember hearing some of that stuff. It’s not because I don’t want to listen to those people, but because I’m simply not ready to. I love them and am thankful for their advice nonetheless.

The thing is, looking back at my life I’ve realized that all the changes only took place because time allowed them to. That seems strange to say, but ultimately time is what healed relationships and explained things in my life. I often ask God for help with something and don’t hear anything. It seems hopeless, but it’s not. He knows what will encourage me and when I will figure things out on my own. That doesn’t mean He abandons me — far from it. He’s still there, helping me along the way. I often ignore it, though, or label it as a failed prayer or a lack of the ability to communicate with God. Pfft.

And with that, the sea of emotion and I will be taking the rest of the morning to sleep. Yes, it’s that early, not late.

Career not of C.S. Lewis

Listening to the previews of Owl City’s new EP, Ultraviolet, inspires me to do something special with my life. It’s easy to just go make money, write about stuff that doesn’t interest me, become a recording artist just because it’s cool, or do practically anything for the wrong reason. All because it’s easy.

I really want to learn how to connect to people with my writing. All these journal entries seem to be for nothing most of the time. I share them once in a while, yes, but the “good ones” and the “deep thought” is hidden because I consider it too undeveloped to share. Funny, because I still share undeveloped ones all the time. I can’t be a perfectionist with my feelings — I tried and it doesn’t work.

I suppose I could ask Adam Young how he does it. I’ve read multiple interviews with him and they all have the same overtone: he wants to continue doing what he loves no matter how much money he makes with it. Thankfully, he’s reached a place where he doesn’t need to work night shifts at Coca-Cola just to support himself through his insomnia-inspired music creation. How does that apply to me? I have no idea.

As much as I enjoy looking to others for guidance in matters of life, whether it be relationships, my career, or maintaining happiness, their advice only works when I’m willing to accept it. Most of the time even the best objective advice can only motivate me to find my own way. That’s great, but it’s the opposite of what I expect. I guess everyone wishes they could just be good at it all right away, but that wouldn’t be interesting, and I’d definitely get tired of it quick.

What’s the end goal? I write about tentative ones all the time in here, but I still don’t have an end product. I want to write and let that inspire others to tackle the many issues that they are ailed with each day. I don’t want to write a self-help blog though, nor another C.S. Lewis novel. All I really want is to find my own voice and the path that goes along with it. I can sit here all day and muse about that, but in my experience the most effective thing is to get outside and talk to people about these problems. Their answers may not help, but the act of processing through oral communication always seems to have some effect.

College should be good for me. It’ll force me to think in different ways, and a creative writing class may help me use different tactics to reach the same goal — which keeps it interesting! — but its main asset for me will be time. I’ll have more time to figure all this out, to improve my state of being, and to meet influential, and maybe just interesting, people along the way. I’m most excited to learn more about love and maybe write about it one day behind a wall of symbolism like every other author featured in curricula. Only I will shred mine when it’s finished, or bury it in the backyard for God to find when He renovates this planet.